Our social profile is based on the Marcel Proust Questionnaire plus a 250-word paragraph describing personal details by the member’s choice. Once you create a confidential profile and become a member, you will be added to the list of social events where you can meet other members in person.
The Proust Questionnaire has its origins in a parlor game popularized (though not devised) by Marcel Proust, the French essayist and novelist, who believed that, in answering these questions, an individual reveals his or her true nature.
This questionnaire is one of the best-known interviews used in the media today. It is thoughtful, fun, concise, and does a good job showcasing someone’s personality.
You might be familiar with this questionnaire that appears in the back pages of Vanity Fair magazine; or in a similar format used in the American Express My Life My Card advertisements.
The questions in the Proust Questionnaire are based on questions asked of Marcel Proust, a famous French writer when he was 13 and 20. In the late 19thcentury, when Marcel Proust answered them, these questions were a popular parlor game played by guests in high society gatherings—much like Truth or Dare! It’s a great way to get to know yourself and others. Have fun!
Most online profiles are simply representations of egocentric screams for help. People are love-hungry. They’re constantly describing, explaining, and convincing others how much they deserve love, how badly their needs were served in the past, and who will qualify better to make them happy and fulfilled
They describe a bargain of services, detailing what they are willing to do for the other as compensation for their “good behavior” and commitment. As soon they see, even from far away, what they really like, they want to commit immediately; to possess the other, and live happily ever after. Their wish is their command!
Most online profiles sound something like this:
Many people are seeking partners to make their life complete, instead of becoming complete first and wanting to share their life with others.
Love (consciousness) is related to imagination. It is an air resource.
To make other people interested in you, your project, or to fall in love with you, you need to first capture their imagination and curiosity. The goal is to attract attention and raise interest but without showing off—with modesty and respect.
A profile should not be a scream for help. A profile reflecting your NEED and your HUNGER reduces your value, significance, and attractiveness for others.
Instead, try writing about:
Start seeing your profile as an invitation to play a game where the rules and qualities are always subject to change.
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