Marcel Proust Questionnaire:

1. What is your idea of perfect happiness? Self-actualization + seeing my family and close to me people happy and healthy
2. What is your greatest fear? Getting sick and not being able to take care of myself
3. What is the trait you most deplore in yourself? Perfectionism
4. What is the trait you most deplore in others? Closed mildness
5. Which living person do you most admire? Dalai Lama
6. What is your greatest extravagance? Antique China
7. What is your current state of mind? Mindful
8. What do you consider the most overrated virtue? Honesty (any virtue going to the extreme will become the greatest vice)
9. On what occasion do you lie? Not to ruin a surprise, for a example
10. What do you most dislike about your appearance? I am happy the way I am
11. Which living person do you most despise? I do not know such a person
12. What is the quality you most like in a man? Self-respect + Spontaneity
13. What is the quality you most like in a woman? Spontaneity + Self-respect
14. Which words or phrases do you most overuse? I think
15. What or who is the greatest love of your life? Rainer, my son, the most unconditional love
16. When and where were you happiest? When I was loved, respected and appreciated. In this case, it is not a matter of “Where” but more of “With whom”
17. Which talent would you most like to have? I would love to be able to sing or paint
18. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be? Improve my self-regulation
19. What do you consider your greatest achievement? Breaking down my pride circle
20. If you were to die and come back as a person or a thing, what would it be? Scheherazade or Cleopatra
21. Where would you most like to live? Italy
22. What is your most treasured possession? There is not such a thing
23. What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery? Loosing our child 
24. What is your favorite occupation? Philosopher, coach, healer
25. What is your most marked characteristic? Courage
26. What do you most value in your friends? Intelligence and loyalty
27. Who are your favorite writers? Tolstoy, Bulgakov, Pushkin, Lermontov
28. Who is your hero of fiction? Yoda
29. Which historical figure do you most identify with? Lou Andreas Salomé
30. Who are your heroes in real life? Those who help others without looking to profit.
31. What are your favorite names? Rainer and Annabel – I even decided to call my first born child Rainer (if it is a boy ) or Annabel (if it was a girl)
32. What is it that you most dislike? Ego driven behaviors
33. What is your greatest regret? I have let go of the past and have learned the absence of resistance to what is.
34. How would you like to die? I really do not care and not afraid or worried about dying. It really doesn’t matter. Probably around family and people I love so I can have a proper good bye with them.
35. What is your motto? Love Deliberately + Live Consciously

Ready To Make New Friends?

How To Get Introduced To A Featured Club Member

Step 1:  To meet our featured members, please create your confidential social profile (fill out only Marcel Proust’s portion of the dating profile unless you would like to join our free confidential dating database as well). It will be only visible to a matchmaker and the potential introduction of your choice and never displayed to the general public without your request and permission.

Step 2:  Request an introduction to the member(s) of your interest. We will send the social portion of your profile to that member.

Step 3:  Once a person of your interest approves your profile and there is mutual acceptance, a one-time intro fee of $250 applies. If your profile was rejected, no fees are charged.

Step 4:  We would then send you both an introduction email and exchange your phone numbers. If you prefer to skip the hassle and avoid a possible online misunderstanding, we can arrange the introduction for you where you meet each other in person for an additional $100 fee.

Step 5 :  If you would like to be approached by our visitors and receive free introductions, please request to turn your existing social or dating profile into a Featured Social Profile and get displayed in our Orenda Club Gallery.